Do you like to be leading a group?
Do you need some degree of autonomy in your learning/work?
Are you motivated by managing others and setting goals?
Things you can do to improve your Motivation
Take on opportunities to lead on projects or represent your team or department. Have a clear development plan. Look for opportunities for promotion.
Take responsibility for any household projects and resources. Set yourself clear personal goals.
Give them responsibility as they will enjoy taking it on.
Agree a clear development plan with them that they can work towards and set clear goals. Think about how you can give them more opportunities for making decisions